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How To Make A Custody Order
With A Narcissist

On Demand - Anytime & Anywhere

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Even though you are divorcing the narcissist in your life, co-parenting is forever! These kids glue you together for the rest of your life. 

When it comes to co-parenting with the narcissist, it seems impossible... because it is! There is no "co" in co-parenting with a narcissist. Everything becomes a battle, a money-wasting, time-consuming, soul-sucking court proceeding. 

In order to set yourself up for a somewhat peaceful co-parenting journey and not get dragged back to court for every single lunchbox you packed "wrong", you need to write the best custody order with as little grey areas as possible because narcissists thrive in the grey area. 

Does your transition happen every Friday? Ok, great! But at what time, where exactly, how is the process of the transition? You need details, details, details in that custody order, otherwise you will be having endless back and forths every single Friday about when the drop off/pick up is happening. You will lose your sanity in the process, and you will not be able to have a life at all (personal or working) navigating the constant schedule changes with the narcissist. 

So grab a cup of coffee (or a glass of wine, no one is judging!), a notebook, and a pen, settle in, and let's talk about the 10 things you need to do to make a kickass custody order that will set you up for a much more peaceful co-parenting journey with the narcissist. 

We will tackle:

  • What is legally required in a custody order in order for a judge to sign off on it (Spoiler alert: it's bare minimum and creates a nightmare when dealing with a narcissist). 

  • Those annoying legal terms that you don't get but that you will be a pro in after this workshop! 

  • What to fight for... and what to leave. Because you simply can't get everything in a custody battle. So let's analyze what is worth your time and paying lawyers for. 

  • How to avoid those grey areas that the narcissist will exploit otherwise. 

  • The different areas you need to think about for your kids' entire childhoods... because amending your custody order is a whole other battle you might not want to take on unless you really have to. 

  • The legal loopholes the narcissist will live in because they just simply can't follow rules - and what you can do about that. 

  • How to present the custody order you crafted to the narcissist so they will say "yes" to some if not all of it. 

  • Presenting this crafted custody order to your lawyer to get them on board of your visions. 

  • And finally, how to go to court and make this an actual enforceable order... and what "enforceable" actually means when you are in the midst of co-parenting chaos years later. 

​Let's get this custody order done so you can focus on what truly matters - being there for your kids and enjoying the freedom of living without the narcissist. 

Come and join the 90-minute workshop followed by a 30-minute Q&A.

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